Asking your child how their day was can sometimes lead to one-word answers like “good” or “I don’t know.” To get more meaningful responses and engage in deeper conversations, try these 25 creative questions that go beyond the typical “How was your day?”
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What was the best thing that happened at school today?
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This helps them focus on the positives and share exciting moments.
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Did anything funny happen today?
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Encourages them to recall and share light-hearted and humorous experiences.
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Who did you sit with at lunch?
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Prompts them to talk about their social interactions.
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What did you play at recess?
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Gives insight into their activities and friendships.
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What new fact did you learn today?
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Encourages them to think about their learning experiences.
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Did you help anyone today, or did someone help you?
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Promotes empathy and reflection on acts of kindness.
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What was the most challenging part of your day?
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Opens up a discussion about struggles and problem-solving.
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Did anything surprise you today?
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Encourages them to share unexpected events or information.
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What book are you reading in class?
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Invites them to talk about their current reading material and interests.
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If you could change one thing about today, what would it be?
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Helps them express any frustrations or disappointments.
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What was the most interesting thing your teacher said today?
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Encourages them to recall and share classroom discussions.
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Did you try anything new today?
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Prompts them to talk about new experiences and promotes resiliency skills.
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What made you laugh today?
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Focuses on the enjoyable moments and brings out a positive conversation.
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Were there any moments when you felt really proud of yourself?
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Helps them recognize and share their achievements, while building self-esteem.
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What is something you’re looking forward to tomorrow?
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Shifts the focus to future excitement and plans.
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Who did you talk to the most today?
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Gives insight into their social interactions and friendships.
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Did you have any questions or confusion about something today?
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Encourages them to share any uncertainties and seek clarification.
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What was the coolest thing you did in [subject] class today?
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Invites them to share specific details about their academic experiences.
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How did you feel during [a specific activity] today?
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Prompts them to reflect on their emotions and experiences during a particular event.
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What’s one thing you learned today that you think I might not know?
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Encourages them to share new knowledge and engage in a teaching moment.
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Did you see anyone being kind or helpful today?
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Helps them notice and appreciate positive behavior in others.
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What’s one thing you did today that you would like to do again?
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Focuses on enjoyable and repeatable experiences.
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Did anything make you feel frustrated or upset today?
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Provides an opportunity for them to express and discuss negative emotions.
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What’s something you’re curious about after today?
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Encourages ongoing curiosity and learning.
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If you could give today a theme, what would it be?
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Prompts them to summarize their day creatively and thoughtfully
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By using these creative questions, you can engage your child in more meaningful conversations about their day. This not only helps you stay connected with their experiences but also encourages them to reflect and share in a more detailed and thoughtful way. Try printing this out and hanging it on your refrigerator, as a reminder. Don’t be surprised if your child catches on and asks you questions about your day!
Pro Tip: If the list is becoming too common after several use, sit down together and write new questions. You may be surprised with how creative your child can be and how your conversations can evolve!